Today’s blog post is about vaginal massage. Vaginal massage is one of the MOST UNDERAPPRECIATED methods of amplifying a woman’s orgasm. I bet that nearly every single man reading this blog post doesn’t have any idea how to provide a sensual massage that leads into a vaginal massage. Vaginal massage is the in between point for sexual massage and foreplay. It is one of the first opportunities to properly exhibit one of the foreplay tips of mastery. Normally when men attempt a sexual massage they do not properly melt into the next process, they just jump right into foreplay. THEY ARE CLUELESS! They stumble all over her body thinking they’re giving her the experience of a lifetime and they have NO IDEA that they’re MESSING THE ENTIRE THING UP! Meanwhile she sits there bored pretending to moan so he won’t feel discouraged, since if he feels discouraged then there’s no way he’ll really fuck her properly. Let me go over some of the vital mistakes men make.

            1 – Move too quickly. Men often get way to excited during any sexual experience and they rush to the finish. When a man massages he’ll often go from massaging a part of the body and the next thing the girl knows he’s trying to finger her. Bad play gentlemen, take it easy.

            2 – Move too slowly. Sometimes men go too far the other way, they shut down their animal brain completely and they spend too much time calculating what to do next. This is partially because they do not know how and when to transfer from one act to the next. Keep in mind how you will move from one position or method to another.

            3 – Discriminate their attention. Don’t try and think in terms of “what is the most optimal”. Here’s an example: if they clit is the most sensitive area then it’s the most important. It will give me the most return on my efforts, why would I focus on anything less? This is a HUGE MISTAKE that MEN EVERYWHERE make. Don’t discriminate your attention, think of the whole pie not just the best slice.

Here are some foreplay tips so you don’t screw it up next time.

1-     Don’t move too quickly.

2-     Don’t just jump to her goodies

3-     Take time to create a whole experience. From start to finish.

4-     Focus on overall enjoyment than orgasms at first.

Take is easy and don’t screw it up

 -ASCW

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