Posts Tagged ‘Foreplay Tips.’
Here’s a quick little video about how stimulating the clit with your hands and mouth. The music’s a little ridiculous but the content is pretty solid. These are some good foreplay tips to add to your weaponry.
Enjoy! And take it easy.
~ASCW~
(P.S. If you try those Foreplay Tips, let me know how it goes my emailing my at sexandforeplaytipsformen@gmail.com)
Mixing it up and having some variety is essential to keeping a sexual relationship healthy and happy. Too much of the same because stale any good thing gets boring after too much repetition. Now that you know that sexual relationships require variety; I thought I’d give you some sexual ammunition to make that happen.
If you have some of your own ideas on how to spice things up, run with it. But for those of you who are less creative here are some easy foreplay tipsideas that can turn up the heat.
Oral Sex: Most men might feel uncomfortable when thinking about “going down” on her. You may be sexually conservative and prefer not to venture outside of kissing and coddling. If you are one of these people I highly encourage to take a step out of your comfort zone. I’d recommend reading some articles and literature on cunnilingus. Expect one from me shortly.
Anal Play: Anal foreplay typically doesn’t involve typically penetration but rather outside stimulation, like rubbing, tickling, and possibly licking. That being said: this is a form of foreplay that I can understand being a little uncomfortable. Society has long deemed the anus dirty, forbidden, taboo. But society can’t change the fact that the anus contains a dense concentration of nerve endings. That concentration of nerve endings makes anal play a double-edged sword. While the potential for pleasure is very high, so is the potential for pain. If you plan on doing anal play, do your research and use lube liberally.
Fantasy & Role Play: Fantasies are common. You have them. She has them. Why not act them out? Acting our fantasies by role-playing is a very safe way to sexually express ourselves, along with having some fun. Role-playing pretending to be another role (nurse, school girl, pool boy), is the core of fantasy. It is easier to do things we wouldn’t normally do once we are no longer “ourselves”. Role-playing allows us to break these boundaries and really explore our partner and ourselves. If you need anything to get the creative juices flowing or just a nudge in the right direction I suggest picking up a deck of role playing cards.
Bondage & Domination: This often provokes bad imagery of over the top whips, chains, masks, and leather. But it doesn’t have too. Bondage and domination can be as simple and as fun. It can be something as simple as tying her hands behind her back, using handcuffs, or blindfolding her (or yourself). Don’t make it a scary thing if you don’t have too. Spank her with an object, get some handcuffs, and try blindfolding her. This is all technically bondage and domination, but less intimidating to try. A book you may want to considering buying would be this guide to bondage.
Sexy Texts: Foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. In this day and age you can start cranking the sexual heat hours before an encounter with the touch of a few buttons. Hinting and leading to a sexual encounter to happen in the future is a good way to get her ready and in the mood. These texts can vary from extremity, whether it is a subtle “I’ve got plans for you tonight” or a blunt “When you come over I’m throwing you on the couch and fucking your brains out.” The sky is the limits when it comes to sexy texts.
That was easy, just by incorporating one of these foreplay tips; you have increased your sexual game and can have better sex with your partner.
While Kegels are no where close to new news. They are still extremely effective. However like any exercise it can be hard to develop a habit or a routine, that consistently builds your PC muscle. I know I had trouble, I tried to do it in the shower, sometime during the day, and before I went to sleep. But I would often forget, or skip one, or just slack off in general. This is procrastination and lack of discipline is something that everybody faces, to some degree. I didn’t really find a solution for this until recently. Until I was bored at a red light. I was at a red light bored out of my mind waiting idly and passively for it to turn green. Then I started doing kegels and I light bulb appeared over my head. What a great way to consistently practice and stregthen your kegel and PC muscle. Everytime I’m at a red light I’m exercising. I’ll do strong and long flexes at one light and then at the next red light I’ll do rapid but weaker flexes. This is my new routine and I have just solved two problems with one solution. If you’re having trouble integrating kegels into your daily life I suggest this method.
Take it easy, and do some kegels.
~ASCW
(P.S. I’m back and expect some damn good sex and foreplay tips coming soon.)
Sexual Confidence – The Multi Orgasmic Man
If a man asked me “What is the one book I can read to greatly boost my sexual pleasure as well as my partner’s?” I would tell them The Multi Orgasmic Man.
I’m currently reading the Multi Orgasmic Man, and so far I have been greatly satisfied with what I’ve read. It’s a great book connecting internal arts (meditation,etc) with sex. It’s essentially sexual martial arts. The book’s focus is more about how to pleasure yourself and keep yourself healthy, rather than pleasuring your partner (Although that is covered). After the first page I thought “Great another book telling me to be Buddha and blow my Tao sexual energy into her G-spot”. Boy was I wrong!!!! After reading their segment on sexual breathing, I now recommend their technique over my own to any of my friends. I know I’m using their technique! Not only does this book teach some of the best ejaculation control methods I’ve ever read, they also teach you how to increase the power of your own orgasms, and how to have as many of them as you want without ejaculating. After using their techniques on enabling your own full body orgasm I tried them out and was blown away. I have never orgasmed that hard without intercourse. I’m very excited to present to you, The Multi Orgasmic Man
I also very much enjoyed the segment on things your female partner can do if you have a small penis. If you think your penis is too small I highly recommend
you read the several posts I wrote on it, as well as get this book.
This book if a perfect in between for the different schools of sex. Most books out there focus entirely on the physical, or entirely on the mental(badly I should mention). Where as this book talks about both, and covers just about everything. If I had to recommend just one book it would be this one. I highly recommend that if you are reading my site that you go pick this book up (you can find it here). I will probably be referencing this book in the posts to come.
You can click here to buy the book.
Just a quick rundown of what you can expect from this book
-How to control your ejaculations
-How to have extremely powerful orgasms
-How to have full body orgasms
-How to have as many orgasms as you want.
-How to use your heightened sense of pleasure to heighten your partner’s.
-How to have more sexual confidence.
-What your woman can do if you have a small penis.
Seriously guys, get the book, it’s worth it. I’ll be talking about it later and you don’t want to be in the dark.
You can click here to buy the book.
Take it easy, and nighttime reading is about to get way more fun for you.
-ASCW
(P.S. It’s important to realize that this book if about the deeper and more complicated sexual issues. While it does have plently of good sex tips and foreplay tips, that is not the books primary purpose.)
Have any questions or comments about The Multi Orgasmic Man, or sex in general? Send them to SexandForeplayTipsForMen@gmail.com
I’ve posted before about the importance of slowing down during sex, and focusing on enjoying the moment. Silencing the noise within yourself. I found an interesting article I thought you might find interesting.
It’s about how our day and age is ruining our sex lives, and the solution is to take a step back, make time, slow down and focus. Anyways, just wanted to throw this your way.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/carl-honore/in-praise-of-slow-sex_b_322026.html
Take it easy, and slow down
-ASCW
Today’s article is about sexual confidence, what it is and why most men do not have it.
This is a clip from the movie “Take The Lead” it stars Antonio Banderas as a high school teacher at an underprivileged school, who teaches kids how to tango. There is one scene that I want to talk about.
Skip to 6:32 and watch until 9:26
9:10 – 9:26
“How many of you men would like to handle a woman like that? And ladies how many of you would like to have the power to drive men to this attraction.”
I love this scene and this quote. That dance followed by this quote explains a sexual dynamic so simply that it deserves preaching. Essentially he is saying it is manly to want to dominate, but more importantly to lead, and that to capture and lead their prize is in and of itself, manly. Where on the other side of the coin, it is womanly to have such charms that can inspire a man to this state. It is womanly to lure a man into seducing her, where it is manly to do the actual seduction.
(I think this is true for most people whether they realize it or not. However there will always be exceptions.)
However many men I know have a very hard time with sexually dominating and sexually leading. Frankly I don’t blame them, and I have something to say for every man who feels this way.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!
We now live in a society where it is wrong to be manly, and wrong to be womanly. Women are told not to be women and men are told not to be men. Men have been told for their entire life by T.V. and their mothers that women are like princesses, gentle flowers, doing anything “manly” or “animal” is disrespectful to them and considered social heresy. Women are also affected, it’s not their fault, they have been told their entire lives by T.V. and their mothers that they must be sweet, lady like, doing anything “crude” or “sexual” would make them sluts and considered social heresy. Do you see what’s going on here? Men are told do go down path Y (treat women like flowers) and women are told to go down path Z(pretend not to be sexual) when both men and women really want to down the middle path, path x (treating and being treated sexually).
It is easier to harness sexual confidence once you realize that women are literally (internally of course) begging for you to use it, to bring it on to them. If you don’t believe me, try it.
In fact that is your homework assignment. Do something sexual that you were always afraid or not confident enough to try. I’m willing to bet that a majority of you will be more successful than you previously thought possible. Even if you aren’t successful, taking those first steps is the only way to learn and improve.
Take it easy, and be fearless.
-ASCW
Have an interesting sex story, or would like to share the results of your homework assignment? Email them to SexAndForeplayTipsForMen@Gmail.com or leave a comment.
P.S. I have some good stuff coming up pretty soon though, you can expect it at the end of this week or the beginning of next.
I’m still pretty sick and which is why I haven’t posted that hyped fingering method that I promised you earlier. So I thouht I’d post a quick intro to Dan and Jennifer. They have a sex advice channel on youtube. I think they give very excellent brief content. I say brief since they rarely go deep into the fundamentals of the matter (That’s what I’m for), but they often give good intros or good overviews of a variety of topics. So without further delay here is a video about giving a g-spot orgasm.
Take it easy, Don’t get sick, and GIVE HER A G-SPOT ORGASM!
-ASCW
I’ll be taking a break this weekend, probably not updating until late Sunday or Monday. I’ll soon be posting how to use different fingering methods THAT WORK. This is not your typical “use a come hither motion” kind of advice that is seen everywhere. This is exclusive HARD-HITTING stuff that will get you RESULTS! That will be coming up soon so stay tuned for that.
However what I want to tell you in this post is that we are now accepting letters and submissions. If you have any sex or foreplay related questions send them to SexandForeplayTipsForMen@gmail.com. I will PERSONALLY review your question and either answer it myself or point you in the right direction to get it answered by somebody else.
So leave me some good stuff over the weekend for me to come back to. Again send me your sex and foreplay questions to SexandForeplayTipsForMen@gmail.com.
Don’t Screw It Up, and Cheers.
~ASCW~
(P.S. Did I tell you that the email address was SexandForeplayTipsForMen@gmail.com? Since that part is kind of important.)
I stumbled upon this video and thought this lady really hit home one of the problems men have when it comes to giving good sex and good foreplay. They cannot turn off their brain, they cannot stop worrying, thinking about this and that. Do give amazing sex you must get LOST in the moment. ABSORBED by the emotion.
She really sums up this idea nicely and quickly.
TURN YOUR BRAIN OFF!!!
Today’s blog post is about vaginal massage. Vaginal massage is one of the MOST UNDERAPPRECIATED methods of amplifying a woman’s orgasm. I bet that nearly every single man reading this blog post doesn’t have any idea how to provide a sensual massage that leads into a vaginal massage. Vaginal massage is the in between point for sexual massage and foreplay. It is one of the first opportunities to properly exhibit one of the foreplay tips of mastery. Normally when men attempt a sexual massage they do not properly melt into the next process, they just jump right into foreplay. THEY ARE CLUELESS! They stumble all over her body thinking they’re giving her the experience of a lifetime and they have NO IDEA that they’re MESSING THE ENTIRE THING UP! Meanwhile she sits there bored pretending to moan so he won’t feel discouraged, since if he feels discouraged then there’s no way he’ll really fuck her properly. Let me go over some of the vital mistakes men make.
1 – Move too quickly. Men often get way to excited during any sexual experience and they rush to the finish. When a man massages he’ll often go from massaging a part of the body and the next thing the girl knows he’s trying to finger her. Bad play gentlemen, take it easy.
2 – Move too slowly. Sometimes men go too far the other way, they shut down their animal brain completely and they spend too much time calculating what to do next. This is partially because they do not know how and when to transfer from one act to the next. Keep in mind how you will move from one position or method to another.
3 – Discriminate their attention. Don’t try and think in terms of “what is the most optimal”. Here’s an example: if they clit is the most sensitive area then it’s the most important. It will give me the most return on my efforts, why would I focus on anything less? This is a HUGE MISTAKE that MEN EVERYWHERE make. Don’t discriminate your attention, think of the whole pie not just the best slice.
Here are some foreplay tips so you don’t screw it up next time.
1- Don’t move too quickly.
2- Don’t just jump to her goodies
3- Take time to create a whole experience. From start to finish.
4- Focus on overall enjoyment than orgasms at first.
Take is easy and don’t screw it up
-ASCW