Here’s a foreplay tip for men with smaller hands. It took me a while to figure out how to use my hands in a way that would overcome their small size. But I’ve figured out a few tricks. I’ve already written about the thumb method (thumb foreplay tip found here), but today I’d like to explain how to stimulate the deep spot if your fingers aren’t naturally long enough to reach back far enough. In order to do this technique you have to
1) Get her really wet, this means you don’t just dive in there and start poking. You need to do A LOT, and I mean a lot of buildup before you can unleash this.
2) Once you’ve gotten her REALLY wet, then you should apply lube to your middle finger, and your index finger. Yes lube even though you’ve done all of this build up. (Seriously if you haven’t gotten your supply ofAstroglide, act now because seriously, it is a must. Click here to open in a new tab, then read the rest of this article, and then buy some Astroglide.)
3) Make sure your fingernails are WELL clipped.
Once she’s primed and ready. Insert your middle and index finger inside of her. Reach in as far as you can. Once you can’t get any further use your index finer to push against her front vaginal wall. You want to push her wall down as if you were trying to stretch it towards her vaginal opening. This will essentially “scrunch” her vagina, bringing her cervix closer to your finger. Since you’ve essentially shortened her vagina you should be able to hit her deep spot with your middle finger. Enjoy making her cum, because I already know she will.
Take it easy, and seriously go buy some Astroglide
-ASCW
(P.S. If you prefer using your middle and ring finger, I find it easier to push the front wall with your middle finger and use your ring finger to stimulate. Mix, match, use whatever works for you.)
(P.P.S. Seriously buy some Astroglide if you haven’t already.)
